You might find the following sites of interest. They are all known to us, but we have no responsibility for their contents or the advice they might give:
Parakaleo, UK (ministry for the gender confused)
http://www.parakaleo.co.uk
EnCourage (UK): A ministry for Catholics facing homosexual issues
http://www.encouragetrust.org.uk
Living Waters UK: A Christian ministry to men and women dealing with relational and sexual issues and also to people dealing with issues of gender identity.
http://www.living-waters-uk.org
National Association for Research & Therapy of Homosexuality (NARTH)
http://www.narth.com/
Robert A.J.Gagnon. Associate Professor of New Testament at Pittsburg Theological Seminary, and author of "The Bible & Homosexual Practice: Text & Hermeneutics"
http://www.robgagnon.net/default.asp
Freetobeme : An excellent site for young people dealing with homosexual issues
http://www.freetobeme.com
Love for Life: A site for teenagers on relationships and sexuality issues
http://www.loveforlife.org.uk
Into The Light : Information, support & resources for people who have been abused and those who support them.
http://www.intothelight.org.uk
SAFE: Love and support for those hurt by the church
http://www.safeinchurch.co.uk
2-in-2-1: A helpful site for married couples where a partner is struggling with same sex or other issues
http://www.2-in-2-1.co.uk
Association of Christian Counsellors
http://www.acc-uk.org
Onze Weg (Netherlands)
Different (Holland and Belgium)
http://www.totheildesvolks.nl/engels/ehah.htm
Til Helhet (Norway)
Basis (Denmark)
Medvandrarna (Sweden)
http://www.medvandrarna.se/
Aslan (Finland)
http://www.aslan.fi