It is also important to ask if the person seeking marriage has ever experienced any heterosexual feelings. Some people are already aware of general heterosexual feelings, even when homosexual ones seem to dominate. Others, who have only previously been aware of homosexual feelings, find they now have some sexual feelings in a close relationship with the opposite sex. In these cases, the partner is the only one for whom they have heterosexual feelings. If they get married the spouse may well be encouraged that he or she is desired sexually by the partner, when any other person of the opposite sex isn't. Such a marriage may work well, providing there is the security of both partners desiring each other sexually. But if there is no sexual desire from one of the partners, the stability of the marriage will be at risk. Although some marriages survive in these situations, I don't believe marriage should be considered if it is clear from the beginning that one person does not have sexual feelings for the other. Maybe a special friendship should be the option in such cases?
