Sadly the message often given by the church seems to be, "You will only be acceptable if you are married with 2.5 children." I wonder if in a sense we are echoing a worldly view that says we all need a sexual relationship. Because many Christians rightly believe the only place for sex is within marriage, the pressure is on to help everyone get married. If homosexuality seems to prevent it, every attempt is made to help homosexuals become heterosexuals - then they can be married and have sexual fulfilment. The fact of there usually being a lot more women than men in most churches, probably helps to motivate some people to change homosexual men! Maybe some of these comments are not entirely fair, but they carry a lot of truth.
